WALTER
V. Amod
Saxena
I first met Walter in early seventies. We both had signed up to play in our annual
hospital golf outing and were put together in the same foursome. I had just
started playing golf. Walter had been
playing golf for some time and was good at it. His older age limited his long
shots but in a short game, it was hard to beat him. We soon became friends and would play the game
regularly for many years to come.
Once on a Sunday morning in early June, we were playing golf
at the West Chicago Golf Course. It had rained the previous night and the
course was lush green. It was sunny and crisp with low humidity. The sky was
clear blue except for a few low clouds. The swaying of treetops by a gentle
breeze made a pleasant soft rustling sound. I took off my cap to let the wind brush
my whole face.
We had already played six holes. Walter
had beaten me in each one. The next hole was a long par five at more than five
hundred yards in length. The white tees were placed on an elevated surface.
From here, we could see the long fairway in front. Slightly to the right of the
fairway and about one hundred and fifty yards from the tees, was a tall oak
tree. The fairway in front of the tree curved slightly to the left and then followed
a dogleg sharply to the right around a wide pond. The green was at the far end
of the fairway on the right. Most good players would drive the ball over the
water or to the right of the fairway and then hit their second shot directly
towards the green. A third shot would take the ball on the green or near its
edge.
That day, Walter drove
the ball to just near-edge of the pond. From there, he went over the pond to
reach on the other side of water about one hundred and seventy yards from the
hole. He then used his five-iron to send the ball near a pitching distance from
the hole. His fourth shot carried him on
the green. With two putts, he made a
bogey on that hole. For me it was a
struggle. I reached the green in six shots leaving me a long putt to make. Luckily,
I holed the ball in one putt. That gave me a double bogey, a first for me on
this hole.
We both looked at
each other with pride. Walter was very
happy for me. He gave me a high five and friendly pat on my back.
I really enjoyed
playing golf with Walter. He was very
encouraging to me even when I played poorly. He made his own game look easy. It
was fun to watch him play. He was also a good company. He had excellent general
knowledge. That day, for example, he told me that it was a man named Charles Macdonald
who brought the game of golf to Chicago in 1892. Macdonald, he
said, had gone to Scotland
as a student and there he became hooked to the game. After his return from Scotland, he built
the first ever golf course in west Chicago
in the same year. It was a nine hole course. He said that MacDonald
tended to slice the ball; he thus laid his fairways running clockwise. This
way, he would mostly stay on the fairways.
What a smart man, I thought?
Walter was patient with
me. Often, he gave me tips to help my game. I appreciated that. However, he
showed no patience for slow players. If he had to wait even for a few minutes
on the fairway for the players to finish putting, he would start twirling his
clubs with his hands, pace the fairway and repeatedly practice his next shot.
After playing the
seventh-hole, we slowly walked to the next hole. It was a par-three at about
one hundred and fifty-five yards. In front, the large green was surrounded by
water on its right side and on its left were several thick bushes. The green was
shaped like a large kidney bean. It sloped slightly toward the water from an
undulating smooth surface on the right side. That day, the hole was placed on a
flatter and narrower part of the green. In
order to get to the hole, one had to drop the ball softly with a backspin on
the upper right end of the green. The ball would then slowly roll down to the
left ending some where below the hole. One can then putt it uphill either for a
birdie or for a par. If the ball dropped at any other place, it would just run
down towards the pond passing the hole on its way. Since Walter
had the honor, he teed up his ball, looked behind at me with a mischievous
smile.
“Watch the ball. I need to get it up on the top of the green
on the right.” He said.
He then took his
stance and was about to swing at the ball, when suddenly he let out a shriek
and fell down backwards with a jerk. I ran towards him, bent down and tried to
open his mouth. His jaws were tightly closed. He just gazed at me without
saying anything. He was breathing rapidly but normally; that relieved me a
little. I pushed his head back and lifted his right forearm trying to feel his pulse.
It was rapid but regular. He tightened his face and twisted his head towards
his right shoulder. I soon felt another jerk that arched his spine and pushed
me away. I looked around and there was no one in sight. The clubhouse was not
that far, but far enough that it would take me a while before I got some one’s
attention. I shouted for help but there was no one to hear me. Leaving him there
by himself while I looked for help was not an option. It seemed to me that he
suffered an epileptic attack and needed immediate attention. Just then, I heard
sound of a golf cart approaching us from behind. I looked back and saw a ranger
in cart speaking on his walky-talky. Soon, an ambulance pulled up next to us and
took us to a nearby hospital. Walter was now fully awake and talking normally.
“I am fine. I just
need to get my pacemaker taken out of me. I had no idea that he wore a
pacemaker. Walter was right; it was
his pacemaker was defective. It kept
sending erratic signals causing his body to jerk. The cardiologist wanted to replace it with a
new one. Walter refused. He told them
that after those jolts, he knew how it might feel to a prisoner being put to
death on an electric chair. I found out later that he ran very high blood
cholesterol and was at a high risk of getting a heart attack. I asked him,
“How do you take care
of your cholesterol?”
“I try to eat right, work
out daily and hope for the best. I also take statins but they make my body hurt.
I is hard to play golf because my muscles hurt. At night, I have hard time to
even lift my bed sheet to cover myself.” He replied.
Later, I found out
that he led a very careful life. He was a total vegetarian and cooked low fat and
salt-free meal for himself. He exercised hard every day on a treadmill and a
stationary bicycle at home. I had watched
him eat at the hospital. He usually drank red wine, ate salads and boiled
vegetables and occasionally fish. I asked him once whether the self-imposed strict
discipline bothered him. He said that he had no choice. For him, it was matter
of life and death. He wanted to live.
One day he asked me to
play tennis with him. I enjoyed tennis so I agreed quickly. We played two full sets of tennis at my club. He
was a competitive player losing to me 6-4 and 6-4. He covered the court well
and gave me a good work out. Later, when
we were sitting in the club lounge enjoying our soft drink, he thanked me for
playing with him.
He told me that he had been experiencing a dull ache in his
chest for the last few days. He feared angina attacks. I looked at him with
anxiety. What if he had a heart attack during the game? Just the thought sent
shivers down my spine by just thinking of such a mishap.
“That was a good work out for my heart. I did feel a mild tightness
in my chest only once; but it soon disappeared. Now, I feel fine. A good game
of tennis is an excellent way to test my heart. I do not like to be on a treadmill
for a cardiac stress test. I do not like the wires attached to me during the
test while they monitor my heart. On the tennis court, at least one can have fun
playing the game”. He said.
I just smiled and kept quiet.
I asked Walter if
he would like to have dinner with me at my apartment. I was single and lived
alone. I had no special plans that evening and would love to have him to join me
in my apartment for a dinner. I could prepare a meal to his liking. He readily agreed but on a condition, that he
would do the cooking. He wanted me to go with him to a grocery store that he
frequented.
“What do you plan to
cook?” I asked considering his diet needs. He told me to wait and see. We got
up and left the club so that he could drive to the shop.
He drove a red MG with
white canvas top. It had a sleek rectangular front grill of polished chrome. It was bright sunny spring day. The flowerbed
by the parking lot of the club was covered with colorful spring flowers. Outside temperature was in fifties. The gentle
westerly breeze felt warm and refreshing. Walter
wanted to open the rooftop of his car. I thought that it would be breezy with
the top down during our drive. I hated to be cold on such a nice spring
day. Walter
insisted that he open the top. I reluctantly agreed. He had brought this MG
from England
three years ago. It was a 1968 model MG GT V8 and had over seventy thousand
miles on it. He kept it in an indoor garage during the winter. Only a limited
number of these cars were built by the company. This car was one of them.
He entered the highway and moved quickly to the left lane. The
highway was not crowded. The car picked up the speed and soon its speedometer
needle touched seventy. I sat low cramped in a narrow and a hard seat next to Walter. The cold wind blew mercilessly on my face and
blowing at my hair hard. My head felt numb with cold wind in spite of bright
sunshine. Walter seemed to be enjoying
the ride.
Finally, he slowed
down and got off the highway. He entered State Street and quickly parked his car
in front of a shop on the right side of the street. It was a small store
squeezed between a music shop selling second hand records and a tavern. The
front door the store was deep red and the window was covered with posters of grocery
items on sale. A young woman in her twenties greeted us with a smile. She had
large brown eyes with dark long hair tied in a ponytail. She was slim and about
five feet and two or three inches tall. She had a sharp pointed nose with
prominent nostrils, which tended to move when she talked.
“Hello there! How are
you? This is my friend. We just played tennis. ” He greeted the young woman and
introduced me to her. She acknowledged me pleasantly and turned her face to Walter.
“What are you doing
here? I have not seen you for a while. Are you keeping well? Dad told me that
you made two birdies last Sunday.” The young woman said excitedly.
Walter wanted to
know if she had swordfish. She said that she only had fresh salmon and red
snapper.
“You know we do not sell swordfish here and you should not
eat it too. If my mother found out that I sold you sword fish she will be mad
with me.” She said seriously. Walter
admitted that he was just kidding her.
He finally bought two
medium size pieces of red snapper. He gave her an affectionate pat on her
shoulder and left the shop. We drove straight to my apartment. During the
drive, Walter asked me if I kept
vegetables and rice in my apartment. I told him that I had both but the
vegetables were in the freezer. He also wanted to know if I had any wine. I
told him that I had recently bought half a dozen bottles of Louis Jadot
red burgundy from a local liquor store. The shop had a wine tasting event last
Saturday. I liked the taste of this wine, so I bought a few bottles. He kept
quiet and continued driving. After a few moments, he asked me the vintage of
the red burgundy. I had no idea about it. In those days, I knew very little
about wines. I considered a wine good if it suited my taste and was affordable.
He explained that two
years ago Louis
Jadot’s red burgundy was rated excellent.
It had a rich body with fruity aroma to it. I was beginning to feel insecure in
offering my wine to a man of such great knowledge about them. I wanted him to stop at a wine shop to pick out
a wine of his choice. He declined the
offer and said,
“All wines taste good if shared with a friend.”
I had a small two-bedroom
apartment on the second floor of a four story large apartment building. I had
converted one of the bedrooms into my study. The living and dining areas were
combined into an L-shaped space. The
kitchen was next to the dining area. It had a cooking range and an oven with an
overhead hood to suck out the smoke and cooking smell. Across from the range
were a sink, dishwasher and a refrigerator. The kitchen top surface was covered
with Formica. The living space was sufficient for my purpose.
Walter
opened the refrigerator door and put the fish on its top shelf. I took out a
bag of rice from Lazy Susan situated under the counter at one corner. It contained
short brown rice. The label on the bag was written in Chinese characters except
“Grown in Japan”
written in English. Walter told me
that it was a kind of sweet Japanese rice. I then opened the freezer
compartment and took out a bag of frozen mixture of green beans, small onions, chopped
carrots and mushroom. Walter took the
bag from me and put it in the sink.
He moved closer to me
and put his hands on my shoulder. He wanted to know about the wine. I led him
to my study. There, I kept the wine bottles on a rack on its northeast corner.
This seemed to be coldest spot in my apartment. He looked at the bottles,
pulled one out and began to read the label.
“Where did you get
this one?” He asked me. I told him that I picked it up at local grocery store nearby
for about few bucks.
“It is a Pinot Noir.”
Walter told me about the wine and explained
that, the word Pinot Noir came from Pinot Nero, a variety of grape named during
Roman times. These grapes are delicate
and are hard to turn in wine. I kept quietly
listened to him with interest. His knowledge for things I regarded useless
amazed me.
“You have an excellent taste for wine.” He said. He probably
did not know was that I knew little about wines or winemaking. This was an undeserved complement, I thought.
I accepted it anyway.
“Let us celebrate our
tennis game.” He said opening the bottle with a corkscrew. He then poured a
little wine for himself in a wine glass. He put the open bottle on the table,
picked up his wineglass, and held it in his hand while looking out of the large
window towards the street. Slowly, he brought the glass close to his nose and
took a long deep breath.
“Good wine, soft and
delicate bouquet.” He said softly.
“How do you know? You
haven’t tasted it yet.” I said.
“You can tell just by
its color and the whiff.” He said shaking the wineglass gently in his hand. He
then brought the wineglass to his lips and took a sip. He kept it in his mouth for
several seconds swishing it around and then finally swallowed it.
“It is a good wine,
medium dry, gentle with a delicate flavor. It would go well with the red
snapper. I do not pay attention to the old saying that you should drink white
wine with fish and red wine with meat. That used to be true when meat was
rotten and fish stale. Moreover, the wines were strong, tart then, and tasted
like chicken soup. I will leave the bottle open for a while and we will drink
it in a few minutes”. He said.
“Growing grapes and making wine is like growing any farm
product. No two plants will bear similar tasting fruits. That is why, if a wine
tastes good note down the name of that vineyard. For example, the area of Burgundy and Bordeaux in France
grows excellent grapes for making wine.” He remarked as he walked towards the
kitchen.
I followed him. First,
he took a cup of rice from the bag and put it in a deep pan. He then washed it
and added cold water to soak the rice.
He picked up a heavy cast iron skillet from a cabinet below the range and
put it on the top burner. He poured a little oil on the skillet. He chopped
garlic in thin pieces while the oil got hot and put the chopped garlic to sauté.
In few seconds, the garlic pieces became soft and golden brown. The smell
sautéed garlic filled my apartment quickly and me hungry. He cut the top of the
vegetable bag with scissors and emptied its contents in a colander nearby. He ran
cold water on it for a few seconds and put the thawed veggies on the hot skillet.
He then covered the skillet and turned the heat to low, and let it cook until
they were done just right.
He turned his attention to the soaking rice. He drained the
water and then added a measured amount of fresh water in the pan. He turned the
heat up until the water began to boil. He lowered the heat and let it simmer
until the rice was done. He then turned the heat off and put the pan with
cooked rice on the countertop. He looked at me with satisfaction. Clapping his both
hands once he said.
“Now we can have our
wine”. He then poured the wine from the
open bottle in our glasses. He handed one glass to me.
“Salute! To us!” He said
brought his wineglass closer to mine and clinked it once. We sat down on the
sofa. I tasted of the wine and it was good. He took small sips of the wine while
we talked.
After we had emptied
our wineglasses, he got up and went back to the kitchen. I followed him there. He
picked up the skillet, wiped it clean with a paper napkin, and put it on a burner
and poured a little oil on it. He put the two large pieces of fish on it when
the oil became hot. They immediately began to sizzle and splatter. When one
side got light brown, he turned the fish over. He then sprinkled crushed black
pepper and squeezed limejuice over the fish.
“It is hard to spoil
a meal as long as you do not overcook it and put too much salt.” He told me
while serving the meal on a plate.
He dug out a portion
of the cooked vegetables and laid it nicely on one side of the plate. He scooped
rice and put it next to it. He lifted one piece of the fish by a flat spatula
and slid it next to the vegetable. Finally he sprinkled Hungarian red peppers on
top of the fish to give it a nice deep red color and squeezed fresh limejuice
on top of it. The combination of red, brown and green was appetizing. A little
wine before increased my hunger even more.
He served the plate
to me and prepared another one for himself. After we sat down on a small dinning table, he
poured more wine in the two empty glasses. The fish tasted good and the
vegetables were just right. The rice had a sweetish taste to it and went
extremely well with the red wine.
During our dinner, he
told me that he was born in Leipzig,
Germany. He was
about twenty years older than I was. He
looked excellent for his age although seemed to be in late fifties. He was about
five and a half feet tall and was trim. His face was round. He looked serious
but had a ready smile. His hair had turned completely gray, which he combed
tightly, parting it on the right side. His nose was short with a bump about two
third ways up from the tip. He mostly
dressed well with a double-breasted suit while at the hospital. On the golf
course though, he usually wore bright colored shirt and pant. Their color almost
never matched. He also wore funky socks with cartoons of different characters
or slogans.
Walter’s
father was a Jewish trader and his mother a homemaker. In 1938, his family
synagogue in Leipzig
was burnt down by the Nazis. His father moved the family to Vienna to escape the discrimination. The
family stayed in Vienna
until early forties when the war broke out. Walter
wanted to be a physician but the Vienna Academy of Medicine first refused him
an admission because he was of Jewish. The place was full of Nazis.
Once when Walter’s
father was coming home from a business trip several young men surrounded him
and kept calling him hateful names. He never mentioned these insults to Walter or his wife. Walter
said that he was by then old enough to know what was going on. The kids in his
school called him names also. Walter
said that he was not angry with the kids but was upset with their parents. They
were the ones who taught the children to hate. Walter
too hid these incidents to his parents.
Between the father and the son, a silent understanding grew. They both
tried to hide their true feelings from each other and certainly never shared
them with Walter’s mother. She stayed
mostly at home and did not have the misfortune of facing the taunts of the
people who called themselves pure Germans. Finally, he did get admission to the
medical academy by the help of one of his father’s influential friends.
The study at the academy was also difficult. During this time,
his parents had moved to Switzerland. He recalled that his anatomy class had about
a dozen Jewish medical students. The Austrian non-Jewish students would just
pick a fight with them on the smallest pretense, beat them up and throw them
out on the street. There the Nazi police would be waiting to arrest them for
breaking peace. In spite of such harassment, he graduated two years ahead of
his classmates and became a physician. He only needed two more years to gain
clinical experience as an intern before he could practice medicine. He did not
want to stay in Austria
and thus he completed his clinical experience in Switzerland.
Walter
told me all this that day during our nice dinner. I had only a little idea of
what had happened in that part of Europe
during the Hitler’s time. Most of my information had come from reading books
about the holocaust and from my own family growing up in colonial India. As I grew older, I learnt more about the holocaust
in Europe under the Third Reich. Still, my
knowledge of the war lacked details. Walter
brought that home to me at a personal level. I listened to him quietly. I
wanted him to enjoy the evening without an emotional distress.
“That was a good
meal, healthy and tasty. I hope you liked my cooking”. He said suddenly trying
to change the subject. He probably sensed my discomfort.
“Of course, I did; you
can cook for me again.” I said cheerfully. We continued to sip our wine. He
seemed relaxed and pleased with himself. He asked me about my plans for the
summer. I told him that I wanted to improve my golfing. I played poorly and it
frustrated me. My drives were erratic. I lacked confidence. During putting, my
body would stiffen; wrists would lock making the stroke jerky. Even the short
putts were difficult to hole. Rarely though, I would make a perfect shot and a
perfect putt. Thus, I knew that I had
the potential of playing better. It was just that I could not put my game
together. Walter on the other hand,
would tee the ball, take a stance, swing the club smoothly, and just strike it
for a straight shot.
He suggested that I
play with him on Sundays that summer.
“Why don’t you join Ben
ad I then? We start early and get the first tee off time. The ranger knows Ben and I am sure, he would let three of us tee off
first thing in the morning.” He proposed to me.
I quickly accepted
his offer. Here was a chance for me to
improve my game playing with the two. Both played a steady game.
Ben
spoke fluent German. He grew up in Philadelphia
in a neighborhood where almost everyone spoke German. He was a large man. He
was an accountant by profession and had his own office. He was also of same age
as Walter. Watching them talk and play
together was sometimes a little unnerving. They constantly argued with each other,
sometimes on trivial things. They knew the PGA rules by heart and used them against
each other quite often.
“Play by the rules or do not play at all”. They would say. Before
each round, they would go through a ritual of marking each other’s ball and toss
a tee to see who would have the honor on the first tee. Every Sunday they would
check their CDGA handicaps stored at the golf club. After a while and playing with
them a few times, I got used to their idiosyncrasies.
Both, however, showed
immense patience with me on the course. They corrected my posture, straightened
my stance and gave me countless tips on how to drive off the tee, use the club on
the fairway and also chipping and putting. Soon, I began to enjoy their company
and the golf. I became a regular partner in a threesome. My game also improved with
time so much so that I too became a regular part of their golf matches and the
bets.
One Memorial Day
weekend I called Walter to see if he
would play golf with me. Ben had gone
out of town and thus could not play. The sky was cloudless, the weather warm
with calm wind. He readily agreed and got a tee time on Monday morning at ten
at the Oak Forest Public Golf Course at 103rd and Central Avenue. The course was new and had
just opened. Walter picked me in the
morning and we drove in his MG to the course.
The course was in
excellent shape with young trees and small bushes. Fairways grass was cut low
and the rough had thick tall grass. The courses also had thick bushes scattered
all over it. The sand traps were large and deep resembling sheep holes in Scotland.
Noticing my anxiety, Walter advised me
to relax and stay calm. He suggested that I swing smoothly and to not think too
much about making mistakes.
“Letting go is the
key to good golf. You tend to get anxious. Just keep your head down and swing
smoothly.” I said nothing. I just kept playing. The weather was nice and I soon
began to enjoy the morning. I also played better round of golf that day. I was
quite pleased with my game that day.
After playing golf, Walter
gave me lessons on my short game.
“First, line up correctly; stand with a relaxed body and
keep still. Make a short backswing and complete the stroke with a long follow
through. Remember the rule of three to one. The follow-through should be three
times the length of your backswing during a good putting. It is also true for a chip. Consider the chip
as a putt. Your chip should take you within one putt distance from the hole.”
He suggested.
We then washed and cleaned ourselves at the clubhouse. He
suggested that we go to the Old Barn for an early dinner. This was a family
restaurant with a history in Chicago area. It was located in Burbank,
on 80th Street
and Parkside Avenue
just west of Central Avenue.
It took us about thirty minutes drive from the golf course. He parked the car in
the parking lot and we got out quickly. Luckily, the restaurant was open on
this Memorial Day weekend. Walter opened
the door of the main entrance that led us to an alcove. It was not well
lighted. In front of us was a small square wooden-frame window. Doors of the
window were shut. On the left door, there was a tiny peep window, which could
be slide-opened only from inside. Near the right side of the window frame was
black buzzer button. Walter pressed
the button. Immediately, the peep-door slid opened. A young man looked at us,
smiled and opened the main entrance to the restaurant.
Walter
led me to a nice cozy room furnished with a sofa and a fireplace. It had teakwood
mantle painted deep red. The two narrow sofas facing each other by the
fireplace. They were also encased in deep red leather cover. We had hardly sat
down when an elderly waiter in uniform asked us to our table. He was probably
in his seventies. He was tall and slim.
His brown skin was smooth and his demeanor was gentle. His tightly groomed white
hair added to his polished personality. Walter
told me that the man had been with the place since it first opened in 1921.
I asked Walter how
he knew about the restaurant. He said
that he had known the place since he arrived in Chicago. The
restaurant opened its door by a man named Andy Kluck
in 1921. It was in a wooden house just north of 79th street. In 1932, the
restaurant completely burnt down. Kluck then reopened it at this location. During
the prohibition, the place made a lot of money serving moonshine. The buzzer
was the original one that the owner recovered from the rubble after the fire. He
reinstalled it here. In olden days, a customer had to identify himself before
being granted an admission. Those without an identity would be refused
admission. It also warned customer inside of a police raids, which happened
quite often.
During the dinner, Walter spoke of life in general. Out of sudden, he looked
at me and asked me why I was not married. The question completely surprised me.
We never discussed our personal lives before. I knew that Walter
himself lived alone. I never asked him why he was not married, though; he was
much older than I was.
I told him that I had not given marriage a serious thought. I
enjoyed being single. It gave me the freedom and avoided worries of marital
life. I had several married friends and
knew by experience that married life was structured and needed a different kind
of discipline. I was comfortable with my life and I told him so.
“To be in love even
for a brief period is an unforgettable experience”. He said staring at his
coffee cup that he held with both his hands.
“I do not understand
why you would bring up these personal matters.” I said in a testy tone that
even surprised me.
“Real love is deep
and it grows on you. The memory of a gentle touch, a sensual effect of a kiss on
the lips and of a loving embrace with the one you love stays with you for ever.”
He said slowly.
Such conversation from Walter
sounded strange to me and affected me deeply. He had never talked to me of such
emotional issues as love and marriage. We finished the dinner of barbecued ribs
and a bottle of merlot, paid our bills and quietly left the restaurant. He
drove me back to my apartment. We were both quiet during the short car ride.
That night, I thought
about our conversation at the Barn. Soon, I forgot it and quickly fell to
sleep. I was on call for the whole next
week including the weekend; thus, I did not see Walter
or played golf with him.
On Monday morning following my ‘on call week’, I woke up late,
as I probably was exhausted and slept soundly without waking up during the
whole night. The previous week had been
very busy and tiring. I quickly took my
shower and got ready to see my patients in the hospital. I was about to sit
down to eat a bowl of cereal when the phone rang. It was about nine o’clock. I picked it up to answer
it. It was Ben. He told me that Rose, Walter’s
housekeeper found him very ill at his home. She immediately called for an ambulance,
which took him to Skokie
Valley Hospital.
He said that he tried contacting me on my phone several times but no one
answered it. He wanted me to come as soon as I could to the emergency room of
the hospital. I left for the hospital immediately. It took me about forty-five
minutes but seemed longer.
I parked the car, got
out quickly and ran towards the entrance to the ER. There, in the waiting room
was Ben standing with his head down
and his both hands locked behind his back. He looked up and gazed at me blankly.
“Where is Walter?” I asked.
“He is dead. I did
not want to give you the news. He was already dead when they brought him here.
Sorry!” Ben said in a low voice.
According to Ben, Rose
found Walter lying in his bathroom,
this morning. She was unsure if he was still alive. She called the ambulance
and then called me. The paramedics brought him here. The doctors pronounced him
dead on arrival. That is all he knew.
According to Ben, Walter
wanted to be cremated. I too remembered an incident in Florida when I was with him for the golf
vacation. He had gotten upset after watching a long line of cars following a
hearse with a casket inside.
“I am amazed at an industry
that has grown up around the dead. They
spend an enormous amount of time making us look better in death than in life. It is very morbid and an ugly display of human
body. It dishonors the dead. I hope no one does that to me when I am dead.” I clearly
remember him saying this to me.
Walter
was cremated on Wednesday morning after a short ceremony where only Ben, Rose
and I were present. Ben’s wife and
daughter came a little later. I immediately recognized Ben’s
daughter. She was the woman in the grocery store where Walter
had once bought the fish. She looked older now and lost the freshness of a
young face. I had never met Rose. I
could tell that she was very attached to Walter.
No other person was in that room. It was obvious that we were his entire
family.
After we had gathered in front of the casket, bearing Walter’s body, a rabbi soon appeared. He said Kaddish
on behalf of the dead. I could not follow the words of prayer. After the short
ceremony, a man in dark suite appeared. He explained to us that the time has
come for the cremation to take place. It all seemed very mechanical. He said
that it was the policy of the funeral home to allow only three persons in the
crematorium. We looked at each other blankly. Ben
asked Rose and me to accompany the
casket. We followed the casket pushed by the man in dark suit. He took us by an
elevator to the basement. Ben was
already there. He came down by the stairs. As soon as we reached a white walled
room with bare walls, the man pushed a button that opened a door in front wall.
Inside, we could see a long wide space that looked like a large oven. He slowly
slid the casket in and quickly closed the door. He then looked at each one of us.
Ben knew immediately what needed to be
done. He looked at Rose asked her to push
a red button on the wall. It would fire the furnace. She refused. Without
saying a word, Ben moved forwards and pushed
the red button himself. The furnace made a long hissing hesitating sound before
becoming quiet. Rose could not hold
her tears and began to sob. Ben came
closer to her put his arms around her and walked her back to where his wife and
daughter were waiting. I turned towards the stairs and left the room without
saying anything. I then quickly walked past the women and Ben
to my car and drove back to the hospital.
A month later, the hospital arranged a memorial service for Walter in the auditorium. The hospital choir played Bach’s
music, which Walter loved so much. I
too spoke of his memory but missed him terribly. I called Ben
and asked if I could meet him for lunch next Saturday. Ben
agreed and asked me to meet him at a restaurant in Lincolnshire downtown.
It was a small restaurant run by a couple and their
daughter. Ben was waiting for me outside
the restaurant. We walked in together. The woman on the counter greeted Ben with a friendly smile. Ben
told me that her husband was the cook and was usually in the kitchen. Their
daughter was busy cleaning the tables. It seemed that people were still eating
their breakfast and some of them were lingering on with coffee and their
newspapers busy reading.
We sat down on a table next to the window. Soon, a young
woman came, put two glasses of water, and poured coffee in our cups from a large
glass coffee pot. Ben was holding a
brown envelop. He placed it on the table.
I came to the point. I told him that Walter’s
death had shocked me and I wanted to know more about him.
He showed me a few photographs that he had brought with him.
He said that he saved these from his drawers in his bedroom. There was not much
furniture or many personal things in Walter’s
home. He lived alone. His housekeeper Rose
had been with him for many years and was dedicated to him. A black and white
photo showed a group of three people, a bearded heavyset man and a short stocky
woman with long dress wearing an apron tied to her waist. The boy wore knee
length shorts, suspenders, and an open collar shirt. The photo was taken in
thirties. This was Walter
as a boy with his parents. The color of the photo had begun to fade.
Another photo showed a man in his late teens or early twenties
with a woman and a child. He held the child in his arms. The woman was thin and
taller than the man was. She wore a bobbed hairstyle. This was Walter’s close friend and the child was her son who
was about a year old. There was no date on the picture. In the photo, Walter looked much younger than the woman did. There
were several other photographs of his family and friends in Europe. As we talked about Walter,
a sketch of Walters’s life became
clearer.
Walter
had a middle class happy and comfortable life. He attended the local school and
at one time attended the famous Music
Academy before deciding
to become a physician. He was an accomplished violinist and continued to play
it until about ten years ago. He told Ben
that it interfered with his golf. I did know his love for the music especially of
Johann Sebastian Bach
and Richard Wagner. Both were also born in Leipzig, Walter’s birthplace.
While Walter attended the medical school, his parents moved
to Switzerland
and then to the Israel.
Walter joined the British military and
became a paratrooper fighting for the British. It was in this capacity that he
went to Poland.
War had ended in Poland
and now the Russians became the new masters of the country. It was not clear
what he did in Poland.
However, he did live with a family in the city of Wazi (Lazi) about an hour from Krakow (Cracov) east of the German border. It was a small,
mostly an industrial town of a few thousand people. A railroad crossed the city
and around the town laid farmland. People owned small family farms or rather
small parcels of land. They mostly grew potatoes and beets.
In Wazi, he met the woman shown in the photograph. She was
older than he was and had a small child out of wedlock. The family out of fear
of the communists wanted to give away the child but the young woman insisted on
keeping the baby. Apparently, he was very much in love with the woman and the
baby. It is not clear if he ever married her but according to Ben, he never forgot his deep love to that woman. In
another photograph, the woman stood in front of a brick house seemed to scratch
the ground with a long hoe in her hands. On her right side was a small wheelbarrow.
Obviously, she was in her garden and it seems that it was springtime as there was
a bush behind her bearing light colored spring flowers. The lone tree at
distance looked winter bare.
Walter lived with
the woman and her parents in a small house shown in the photo. He was still in
the British military and probably worked for the Allies in Poland. The
Russians had installed a puppet government. The communists had banned all forms
of religious practices. Although, the boy’s mother and family wanted to baptize
the child, they were afraid that the secret police would know about it and would
harass them. The grandparents took the child and her mother to Gdansk. Walter
went with them and one of the priests there secretly baptized the child. Walter told Ben
that it was the most important event of his life.
After their return from Gdansk, Walter
left for England.
Again, Ben did not know the reason. Walter never told Ben
more details. He promised the woman and her family that he would soon return
and would take them with him. He never returned. He could not. An iron curtain
had fallen over the country. Later, he found out that the secret police had
discovered about the family’s trip to Gdansk
and Walter’s presence. The father lost
his job and the house they lived in. The family soon left the town and moved
north. Her father joined a few of his friends in a similar situation and started
working on a farm owned by one of them. There he organized a resistance group against
the government. They farmed their own vegetables and kept pigs for meat. One
day they slaughtered a pig for a meal. The pig meat was infected with
Trichinosis and the whole family became very ill and died except Walter’s friend, her son and two other women.
None of them was ever found. Walter
strongly suspected that the secret police probably came to know about the tragedy
on the farm and arrested those who were still alive. It probably sent them to
hard labor in Germany. Walter never
heard from them again. He immigrated to the United States but not before fighting
the Palestine Arabs and Zionists on behalf of the British Mandate in the Middle East. He was sent there just after the hotel
bombing by the Zionists.
On arriving in Chicago, he took up an internship
in one of north side hospitals. He opened an office in Chicago’s Southside
as a family physician. In 1967, he lost his parents in the ill-famous massacre in
Golan Heights.
It has been several years since Walter’s
death. I am an older man now and play golf regularly. Each time I bend down to
put the ball on the tee, I still hear his voice.
“Relax, keep your head down and remember, it is only a game
and the balls are cheap.”
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